Facebook members eat up diner dispute

Published Monday February 16th, 2009

Frank's | Owner says customers weren't treated rudely

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A report of rude service and an allegation of disrespect for a disabled person has hundreds of people on Facebook up in arms and calling for a boycott of a well-known northside diner.

Anna Harris-MacPherson created a new Facebook group entitled "Support the decision to NOT EAT at Frank's Finer Diner" over the weekend after she felt she and a disabled dinner companion were treated poorly at the hands of Frank's Finer Diner owner and manager Marx Miles.

Harris-MacPherson and a wheelchair-bound friend went to the restaurant at Two Nations Crossing for supper and to see an Elvis impersonator's performance Saturday evening, she wrote in a message on the Facebook group.

She was disappointed when Miles seated them at a small table in a section of the diner reserved for staff meals, she wrote.

Miles told The Daily Gleaner on Sunday night it was busy and the table was made up especially to accommodate Harris-MacPherson and her friend, Chris Burlingame.

"It wasn't a good table, I admit," he said Sunday, but plenty of other customers lined up at the same time didn't get a table at all.

Burlingame couldn't be reached for comment Sunday night.

Harris-MacPherson said she feels Miles treated them rudely.

She said she became so upset with the way Miles spoke to her, she broke down in tears in the diner.

She and Burlingame decided to leave without eating or seeing the show.

"I just wanted to tell my story, and if I touch any ears, and sway anyone's decision on eating at his diner, then I feel I have made a stand," Harris-MacPherson wrote on Facebook.

"It is sad, because honestly, I liked the food there.''

Miles said he's seen the Facebook group.

"I don't feel there's been a fair assessment of the facts," he said. "They were there and were offered a table."

Miles said the pair was treated with respect.

"They were treated fairly. I'm being treated unfairly now," he said.

Harris-MacPherson said Sunday the issue isn't one of wheelchair accessibility but rather customer service.

She said she took her beef to Facebook because she's on the Internet all the time and felt the need to detail her experience.

"From my point of view, I just wanted everyone to know how I was treated," she said.

Despite what members of her Facebook group have posted, Harris-MacPherson said, she's always liked the food at Frank's and has never had a problem there during previous visits.

She admits it was a busy night and has no doubt Miles had had a long, hard day, she said, but it doesn't excuse rudeness.

Harris-MacPherson said she hasn't heard from Miles since she created the Facebook group, but would welcome a call if a sincere apology were offered.

"I would appreciate it," she said.

Miles said he's never seen any kind of complaint take on a life online like this one has in his 25 years of running Frank's Finer Diner. As of press time Sunday night, Harris-MacPherson's Facebook group was approaching 1,000 members and still growing.

 

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Drama queen
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Voted Conservative, Dieppe on 16/02/09 06:25:36 AM AST
Mr Miles has no problem admitting that he gave them a poor table, why can't he just admit that this was an error in judgment. This was a perfect opportunity to take the time to apologize to these patrons. Instead, he chose to take the defensive, even after admitting that he gave them a poor table. A miss step. A missed opportunity.

In the present economy, we should be doing everything we can to retain customers and initiate new ones. This event is certainly not a step in that direction.

Customers are relying more and more on consumer reviews & feedback scores from websites. Social media & websites should never be discounted by businesses or companies, as more people are choosing this forum for communication. This is the new grass roots communication tool. It is here to stay.

People are getting very choosy about where they spend their hard earned dollars and definitely would think twice before going somewhere that they have heard negative feedback about. I know I certainly do.

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Sabrina Harnish, Fredericton on 16/02/09 06:27:47 AM AST
He let them jump the line! And then gave them the staff table, the only one in in the place!
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Michael C., Fredericton on 16/02/09 06:51:39 AM AST
A few things about the artical first,
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"It wasn't a good table, I admit," he said Sunday, but plenty of other customers lined up at the same time didn't get a table at all.)

We were there at 6. There were a lot of tables, this was not the issue. No ne at this time was turned away, the line came in for a good 45 mins after we were sat and no one was turned away


(I don't feel there's been a fair assessment of the facts," he said. "They were there and were offered a table.")

I agree, again I will state, when seated, I said to Mr Miles, "This is not the best seating area" to which he agreed with me - NOT ONCE after that, did I every ask for a different table, NOT ONCE did I complain about the table.

Therefore, I ask you Mr. Miles, as I asked you Sat night & you refused to answer me.
"why are you speaking to me like this?"

(Miles said the pair was treated with respect.)
If that is respect, then WOW what a world we live in


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Anna H., fredericton on 16/02/09 07:14:38 AM AST
(Miles told The Daily Gleaner on Sunday night it was busy and the table was made up especially to accommodate Harris-MacPherson and her friend, Chris Burlingame.)

In case anyone wants to know, it was not busy at 6 when we arrived.

This table, WAS NOT made up especilly to accmmodate.... in fact it wasn't even made up lol

When he directed us that way, there was no chairs at the table at all, he grabbed one from elsewhere for me to sit.

There were no place sittings on the table.

This was a quickly made decision to get Chris and I out of the way as we were waiting by the pie window to be seated.

I do not understand why Mr Miles would say "It was made up especially" when only moments before sitting us he told Chris, "I will get you a good seat, I will make one if I have to"

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Anna Harris, fredericton on 16/02/09 07:25:26 AM AST
Anna...you don't have to defend yourself to those that are just going on about you being a drama queen. You know what happened and as for Mr. Miles, if he think HE is being treated unfairly, then hopefully he is feeling the same you were on Saturday evening. Mr. Miles there was no reason to speak to Chris the way you did in telling him to go sit in his seat like a bad schoolboy would be. He's a grown man and to speak to him that way is terrible. The issue was never the seating! It was the rude way YOU spoke to them!
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d. mj, miramichi on 16/02/09 07:29:28 AM AST
We challenge you, Mr Miles, we all know that you've seen this group. We challenge you to apologize to these patrons. Clearly, the alleged treatment they received resonates with a large number of former customers and employees. Why not take this opportunity to make amends?
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Sabrina Harnish, Fredericton on 16/02/09 07:45:55 AM AST
While I read the story and looked the facebook over. I have never been to the diner, thus have no experience of it. You were un-happy with your seat, that happens in restaurants alot. This issue has nothing to do with accessibility if I have read write. I think a facebook group for such an issue is silly. I must say you are seriously moving toward a defamtion suit if you keep up your current antics. Remember this is not a government official or civil servant, this is a business and business owner, who trades on their reputation, I have to assume there is more than either side is saying; that gray area called the truth. Hopefully by starting the facebook group you do not lose eveything you own to a civil suit, good luck.
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D F, OROMOCTO on 16/02/09 07:53:58 AM AST
Also, you say it was not busy,yet on the facebook group you say you had to wait in line. Curious dis-connect there.
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D F, OROMOCTO on 16/02/09 08:01:21 AM AST
to D.F. of Oromocto, it was not only the table that was the issue, it was the way the patrons were spoken to by the owner. I have never heard tell of a patron being told to go sit down or leave. The way they were treated seems to be in keeping with how others have been treated at the same place.

Very confrontational and certainly not in the right direction for excellent customer service.

Also, restaurants and hotels are subject to critical review by professionals and individuals. All media is a forum for consumers to express their individual experiences at a certain establishment. Customers are well within their right to express how they were treated at a business.

Good companies and businesses welcome feedback, however negative or positive, and use it as an opportunity to improve how they appear to their customers and in the community as a whole.
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Sabrina Harnish, Fredericton on 16/02/09 08:01:53 AM AST
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