Facebook members eat up diner dispute

Published Monday February 16th, 2009

Frank's | Owner says customers weren't treated rudely

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A report of rude service and an allegation of disrespect for a disabled person has hundreds of people on Facebook up in arms and calling for a boycott of a well-known northside diner.

Anna Harris-MacPherson created a new Facebook group entitled "Support the decision to NOT EAT at Frank's Finer Diner" over the weekend after she felt she and a disabled dinner companion were treated poorly at the hands of Frank's Finer Diner owner and manager Marx Miles.

Harris-MacPherson and a wheelchair-bound friend went to the restaurant at Two Nations Crossing for supper and to see an Elvis impersonator's performance Saturday evening, she wrote in a message on the Facebook group.

She was disappointed when Miles seated them at a small table in a section of the diner reserved for staff meals, she wrote.

Miles told The Daily Gleaner on Sunday night it was busy and the table was made up especially to accommodate Harris-MacPherson and her friend, Chris Burlingame.

"It wasn't a good table, I admit," he said Sunday, but plenty of other customers lined up at the same time didn't get a table at all.

Burlingame couldn't be reached for comment Sunday night.

Harris-MacPherson said she feels Miles treated them rudely.

She said she became so upset with the way Miles spoke to her, she broke down in tears in the diner.

She and Burlingame decided to leave without eating or seeing the show.

"I just wanted to tell my story, and if I touch any ears, and sway anyone's decision on eating at his diner, then I feel I have made a stand," Harris-MacPherson wrote on Facebook.

"It is sad, because honestly, I liked the food there.''

Miles said he's seen the Facebook group.

"I don't feel there's been a fair assessment of the facts," he said. "They were there and were offered a table."

Miles said the pair was treated with respect.

"They were treated fairly. I'm being treated unfairly now," he said.

Harris-MacPherson said Sunday the issue isn't one of wheelchair accessibility but rather customer service.

She said she took her beef to Facebook because she's on the Internet all the time and felt the need to detail her experience.

"From my point of view, I just wanted everyone to know how I was treated," she said.

Despite what members of her Facebook group have posted, Harris-MacPherson said, she's always liked the food at Frank's and has never had a problem there during previous visits.

She admits it was a busy night and has no doubt Miles had had a long, hard day, she said, but it doesn't excuse rudeness.

Harris-MacPherson said she hasn't heard from Miles since she created the Facebook group, but would welcome a call if a sincere apology were offered.

"I would appreciate it," she said.

Miles said he's never seen any kind of complaint take on a life online like this one has in his 25 years of running Frank's Finer Diner. As of press time Sunday night, Harris-MacPherson's Facebook group was approaching 1,000 members and still growing.

 

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It seems like SM has the problem with the owner of Frank's, but was it really neccessary to go to such measures as she did to tell her own version on what happened. Yelling from the high heavens on how she was treated, (facebook, newspaper..and lord knows where else she has gone to tell her story) I have never even met the man, but I do work in the food and beverage business, maybe Ms Anna should walk a mile in his foot steps before she passes judgment instead of slandering a man and his business..and that is just what she did. From all the stink she has caused I would honestly say he is being miss treated, he has more to lose than she does over all this non sense. What does she expect now from all resturants, the royal treatment. If I was to ever see her coming I would close the doors so she doesnt get the chance to slander someone elses business/life.
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J C, Fredericton on 17/02/09 09:31:14 AM AST
What Ms Anna expects, is to be able to go into a diner, any diner, anywhere, be seated (at any table, as mentioned, this was never the issue) and be treated as an adult. With respect.

I would not want this store owner on any other store owner for that matter to treat ANY customer the way he did me.

As far as I can see, 90% of those that are complaining about me in here, continue to get the facts wrong, and pick on things that don't make sense. "she wanted a better seat, she wanted free food, she wanted she wanted she wanted.."

For anyone who actuly wants to know, she wanted to see Elvis preform, in peace, with her friend, and not be attacked for no reason.

It WAS without cause, there WAS NO complaints, I did not ask to be moved, I did not ask to be in the middle of the diner, I WAS spoken to very rude. Thats the facts.

And I can say that, I was there :)

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Anna Harris, fredericton on 17/02/09 10:21:49 AM AST
Anna Harris, Anna H, how many accounts do you have on here? Are you also A Reader and Anonymous Reader? Do you debate with yourself or do you use multiple accounts to make your causes seem popular in the comments section?

As to respect and judging by the thumbs up situation, you are well beyond ever earning that in Fredericton now. Welcome to public life!
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D F, OROMOCTO on 17/02/09 10:36:29 AM AST
I've never met Mr Miles and think it is ridiculous for someone to even suggest that he had to pay people to get support.... as i've said before people need to grow up. And as for Mr. Miles contradicting himself in his spology, whether he was rude or not wouldn't even be the issue, he is being a responsible business owner and, whether he believes he should apologize or not probably isn't the issue, he was the bigger person and apologized to the people in question... I'm sure Mr. Miles would have apologized even without all the media hype and overblown comments from the parties in question and facebook groups... again, deal with it like adults people!

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K. S., Saint John on 17/02/09 10:37:04 AM AST
K.S.
I am not sure what posts you are reading.
However from my seat, the apology was asked for at the diner the night in question, and not offered.

It seems the diner manager, actuly apologized, AFTER it hit the media, when perhaps he realized this time he wasn't going to get away with it.

As I mentioned in my first post, I have seen him react first hand, and I know how he has spoken to customers.

It was not until the next day that he decided he had better apologize to this couple.

Thats bad buisness to have waited so long.

I can not see how he took a higher road here.

In reponse to the mention of me having a beef with Mr Miles, I do not, he has never harmed me, and I like the food, and I will go back.
However, I have heard him mistreat others, and I feel you should let Ms Anna have her stand, as she was right to stand up to him.
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S M, Fredericton on 17/02/09 10:58:14 AM AST
Just becasue two things appear to be related doesn't mean they always are. Simple facts...

And I agree, Anna wasn't wrong to voice her concerns and demand an apology if she felt she deserved one, however I think the went about it the wrong way.
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K. S., Saint John on 17/02/09 11:09:41 AM AST
"You need to get a life OMG Lady!! the only reason your shootin your lips off is probally because your a friend of Mr.Franks!! because if you werent and this happened to you or someone you knew you would be probally doing and feeling the very same!! and im pretty sure you checked out the Group as well and what would that make you Mr.OR Mrs Smarty Pants!! go chew on a Franks Burger and Clam up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!lolol
No pun intended!!lolol"

So, Sue Anderson (and others), if the posters here don't agree with the story, they aren't entitled to their opinion? AND, people who feel they should defend Mr. Miles shouldn't, but it's OK for Ms. Harris-MacPherson to run him into the ground? WOW, that's a bit one sided.

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Shaking My Head, New Brunswick on 17/02/09 12:52:03 PM AST
Many of the posters here seem to believe that "we all had bad service" and that it's always existed so we should just shut up and accept it. Maybe we should go back to the days where we just accepted racism, child abuse, sexual discrimination, etc. because they always existed.

I think what made the story newsworthy to the Gleaner and other media was not so much Anna's story, because you're right, these abuses by bullies in customer service happen every day. What made the story newsworthy was the overwhelming number of postings that were made on Facebook. I'm sure not even Anna anticipated that in her wildest dreams.

Times have changed. There are now hundreds of websites where customers may post their reviews of restaurants online. There are even websites like ratemyemployer.com and RateMDs.com which can all be used anonymously. And because of the anonymity, there is a huge opportunity for abuse. Anna, however, courageously and honestly used her name on her Facebook story.
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Paulette Riley, Vancouver on 17/02/09 03:27:19 PM AST
"anonymously", that is the problem people who cannot stand up and be counted fairly and openly without resorting to cyber-bullying sites.
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D F, OROMOCTO on 17/02/09 03:34:49 PM AST
And for those of you that say that Anna should have tried to talk to Miles personally rather than take her story to Facebook, read her story again. She did. He refused.

If Miles loses business over this, it's of his own doing, not Anna's.
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Paulette Riley, Vancouver on 17/02/09 03:37:36 PM AST
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